POSITIVE THINKING AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

“Believe in yourself and the world will be at your feet” as said by swami Vivekananda, self-confidence and positive thinking can change your life, your world. The power of positive thinking and positive attitude is remarkable.

 

Here I’m remembering small story which I read 

Whenever we see a person who is success in his life and who have positive thinking and confident about his thought, having  clear idea  about his goal ,most of the time we feel ‘wow, how fortunate he is ‘ and ‘it’s his good luck’ we don’t bother to know his struggle and how he reached this position.  As per me in this world everyone is fortunate and lucky but one thing we have to do is we have to change our thinking, if we change something within us we can also see ourselves successful and also we guide our next generation to a right path. 

Nothing is impossible in this world, we have to try in right way and have to set clear goal, and everyone is having special talent, find out your inner strength. 

Now let us see about “HOW TO BUILD POSITIVE THINKING”:

Then here we go ->

Get ready to make change in yourself

11.    STOP BLAMING:

Everyone do the mistakes, mistakes will happens by everyone if any mistake happened do not blame anyone for that, instead of blaming try to find out the genuine reason behind that, if it’s happened by you accept it without any hesitation, and be careful about that mistake never repeat in future, if you adopt this attitude people who is observing you and also your younger ones will follow you, directly or indirectly you are helping others, feel proud for this.

22.  BE A ROLE MODEL

You are the role model for your younger ones. So respect elders, give respect to everyone. Don’t lie, if you are not doing this, your younger ones will definitely follow your way. They observe whatever you are doing and do the same; knowingly or unknowingly you are the example for them. Your part will be there in their personality development too.

33.    DON’T SAY NO

It’s easy to say NO for anything.  According to Neurologist Andrew Naigh Bourgh ‘words that change your brain’ in that ‘NO’ is also one, when the word ‘no’ heard by a person their brain release the stress hormones and harm them,  don’t say ‘NO’ without thinking think twice before saying no. understand the situation or question and try to solve that if you don’t have any option then say ‘NO’ it will improve your analyzing capacity.

44.       LOVE AND FORGIVENESS

Forgive the unknowingly did mistakes by your loved ones or anyone and tell them what mistake they did that make them aware about their mistakes and they will not repeat that in future. That attitude which you shown on them will carry forward to person to person then may be their next generation also, is not a best gift for your future generation from  you, think!.

55.       RECOGNIZE THE SPECIAL CHARACTER AND ENCOURAGE

In this world everyone is unique and special instead of finding out drawbacks find out the special things in your close ones, friends and in your kids. This encouragement will boost their confidence level and help them to be successful ,  for example if you told anyone like “ It’s not possible with you “  it will create fear inside them towards the outer world and they may hesitate to do any work in future . read the successful persons story and know their struggle and how they reached that position take the inspiration from them and if possible adopt the few strategy which is comfortable to you  think ” If they can then why can’t I”. This thinking can help you to reach your destination which dreamed about.

66.       RESPONSIBILITY

Take your responsibility on your shoulder, don’t depend anyone for your own works.  First try to do your small work by yourself and day by day you will get the confidence to do any work.

77.       BE A REALISTIC

Try to analyze, Understand and accept the real facts, There is lot of difference between the real world and imaginary world so try to accept real fact that make you stronger and prepare you to face any situation in life. Now you can overcome all the negativity around you.

88.       BE A GOOD  LISTENER

      To become anything in life first important factor is you should be a good listener; it develops       patience and tolerance in you. It develops patience and tolerance in you. listening to others can help you solve problems, and people will like you more, because people like good listeners, it help you to understand them and their needs, and this would enhance your popularity.

99.       LEARN TO CONTROL STRESS

How you will react in stress?  It will show your inner strength.

Fear, depression,  anger, doubt  on one’s own confidence, frequent lies are links of negative thinking  over coming from all this is the positivity  and positive thinking.

be a positive thinker and make your personality more attractive.